There had been no medical intervention, no endless hours with a psychotherapist, and no medications involved, yet Richard's decades-old fear of spiders had virtually vanished. Could that one non-supervised self-help session have eradicated Richard's life-long fear of spiders? Some scoff at the proposal, but new research, and arguably even more compelling personal experience, suggests that such rapid and long-term healing is possible. What's more, it is the result of literally tapping into a system of energy that already exists within each of us.
Too good to be true? I'm sure it seems that way. But Richard's story is actually my own. This was my initial and quite surprising encounter with an ancillary therapy called Emotional Freedom Techniques or EFT.
After we had reached our seats, and with only ten minutes before the start of the concert, I asked her if she'd like to lose her fear of heights. She was incredulous but open to the idea and proceeded through the basic steps of EFT with me as her guide.
After only two rounds of the technique, a peculiar look crossed her face and she said, “It's gone.” To prove it, she grabbed the railing in front of us and bent over so far that I was uncomfortable! During intermission and after the concert, she tested the results and was able each time to lean over the railing without any hint of the crippling fear she'd experienced earlier.
To this day – and that was several years ago – her fear of heights in such settings has stayed a thing of the past. So much so, in fact, that she hardly remembers what it was like before our quick, impromptu EFT session.
been shown to increase the release of serotonin (a natural, beneficial neurochemical), necessary from a neurochemical standpoint to minimize depression, addictions, and mood disorders.“Even though I am terrified of spiders…”
This establishes the problem and helps trigger your body's subtle energies surrounding this issue. The next step in the Set-Up Phrase process, however, is to tell your body/mind that, regardless of the issue, it is loved and accepted:“…I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
This entire phrase – “Even though I am terrified of spiders, I deeply and completely love and accept myself” – simultaneously addresses the issue and primes the energy system for what I like to think of as “recalibration.” Essentially, you allow your body to slip into the negative energy pattern (by calling out the problem) then offer yourself love and acceptance in spite of the perceived negative response.1Phil Mollon, Review of Energy Psychology Interactive. Clinical Psychology 42 (2004): 37-39
2David Feinstein, Donna Eden, & Gary Craig, The Promise of Energy Psychology: Revolutionary Tools for Dramatic Personal Change. (2005): 13
3David Feinstein, Donna Eden, & Gary Craig, The Promise of Energy Psychology: Revolutionary Tools for Dramatic Personal Change. (2005): 21
Ryan N. Harrison, MA is a Holistic Health Educator/Consultant in private practice (www.BeWholeBeWell.com). He has taught holistic nutrition, therapeutic herbalism, and natural health for many years in both online and traditional settings.
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